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Why didn’t you adopt white babies?

What to say when you are asked why you didn't adopt a white baby. Check out our top ten comeback lists at www.ishouldhavenet.net

What should an adoptive parent say when some rude individual says, “Why didn’t you adopt white babies? “ It can be absolutely shocking when a rude individual asks about your child’s adoption and makes a racist inappropriate comment.

Thankfully the word is getting better, but there are still a few people how just don’t get it and still say inappropriate things.

Tell us what you think is the best comeback to this uncouth comment.

  1. We didn’t put in a take out order, we adopted children.

2. When we picked her we had a choice, obviously you didn’t with your children.

3. Our love is colour blind.

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Got any comments, questions or tips for dealing with an ignorant person who asks why you didn’t adopt white children? Share them in the comments below.


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