teenage sex pressure

What to say when you are being pressured to have sex

What to say when someone says if you loved me you would have sex with me

When you’re a teenager and someone is pressuring you to have sex with them they are thinking more about their own needs than yours. If you love the person, you feel guilty and pressured to concede to their wishes when it may not be the right choice for you.

When I was in high school a kid at my school named Toby wanted his girlfriend Khloe to have sex with him and he was constantly pressuring her. He was not a good person and had a reputation for drugs and drinking. His girlfriend broke up with him after he kept pressuring her and he even slammed her publicly on Instagram, embarrassing her in front of everyone. 

A couple of weeks after the break up, Khloe realized what a jerk Toby actually was. She was grateful she didn’t give in and have sex with him.

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If someone better comes along would you regret that you wasted your virginity on this person?

In many cases, if someone is pressuring you to have sex with them it may not be a good relationship.

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Reality star Snooki Polizzi regrets losing her virginity

Snooki lost her virginity to a high school senior, who she thought liked her. When she went back to school after it happened, the guy totally ignored her, and she realized that he was a jerk and she felt terrible about the situation.

“When I saw him again in class, he ignored me. I was like, ‘Cool. This is what life is? Great.’ I definitely regret my first time. It sucked.” – Rolling Stone Magazine

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It can be awkward when someone goes on about being a virgin and wants to why you still haven’t had sex yet. We get that nobody wants to be notorious for being a 30-year-old virgin but it is probably better to wait until you find the right person instead of rushing and doing something you’ll regret.

You might feel awkward being the only virgin in your group of friends but it can be even more awkward if you sleep with someone and things go sideways. I used to work as a flight attendant for an international airline and you could always tell if crew members had hooked up the night before. There would be an awkward silence between the people who had a fling and they would usually ignore each other during the rest of the trip. It was always kind of interesting to see how things played out.

There is nothing wrong with being a virgin, wait until you’re ready. In the meantime, use one of our snappy comebacks below the next time someone asks you a nosy question.

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What to say when you are being pressured to have sex


When the person you are seeing says that they will die if you don’t have sex with them, it may leave your head spinning. Relationships are complicated, and things can move fast within the blink of an eye. Soon, you’ve gone from long walks in the park to him/her wanting to take things to the next level. If you find yourself in the situation where your partner is pestering you for sex, you should know that you aren’t obligated to do anything you aren’t comfortable with.

You may feel like you have to do what they want just because you’re in a relationship with them, but that’s not the case. The pressure in a relationship to please the other individual can feel very real, but if you feel like you are just not ready or any other circumstance that is giving you doubts, you are always welcome to say no. 

As well, you shouldn’t feel bad or guilty for wanting to decline. If you’re afraid to see how your partner reacts, then you should know that you aren’t responsible for how someone else is feeling. It’s not your job to make someone else happy, and however, they choose to respond.

To add on, it’s not a bad thing to be scared of having sex. It does come with serious responsibility and can have serious repercussions. Take Jamie Lyn Spears for example. At the age of 16, she learned she was pregnant, and her world was thrown out of proportion. Even at such a young age, she was forced to grow up so fast, and while her life now is back on track, we can’t imagine how hard it must of been for her to deal with the news. 

Sex isn’t always bad, but if you feel like you aren’t ready or are feeling pressured to do so, don’t. If you ever find yourself in a situation where someone is asking you to have sex with them, try using one of our comebacks below

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