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What to say when you are being pressured to have sex

What to say when someone says if you loved me you would have sex with me

When you’re a teenager and someone is pressuring you to have sex with them they are thinking more about their own needs than yours. If you love the person, you feel guilty and pressured to concede to their wishes when it may not be the right choice for you.

When I was in high school a kid at my school named Toby wanted his girlfriend Khloe to have sex with him and he was constantly pressuring her. He was not a good person and had a reputation for drugs and drinking. His girlfriend broke up with him after he kept pressuring her and he even slammed her publicly on Instagram, embarrassing her in front of everyone. 

A couple of weeks after the break up, Khloe realized what a jerk Toby actually was. She was grateful she didn’t give in and have sex with him.


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If someone better comes along would you regret that you wasted your virginity on this person?

In many cases, if someone is pressuring you to have sex with them it may not be a good relationship.

Vote for the best response when someone is pressuring you to have sex

Don't knock masturbation - it's sex with someone you love!
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If you love someone you would be willing to give up everything for them, but if they loved you back they’d never ask you to.
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Maybe you need a refresher, but I don't want the pressure.
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My favorite sex position is the virgin; You stand there with your legs shut, waiting for the right person to come along.
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Reality star Snooki Polizzi regrets losing her virginity

Snooki lost her virginity to a high school senior, who she thought liked her. When she went back to school after it happened, the guy totally ignored her, and she realized that he was a jerk and she felt terrible about the situation.

“When I saw him again in class, he ignored me. I was like, ‘Cool. This is what life is? Great.’ I definitely regret my first time. It sucked.” – Rolling Stone Magazine

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