When you’re a teenager and someone is pressuring you to have sex with them they are thinking more about their own needs than yours. If you love the person, you feel guilty and pressured to concede to their wishes when it may not be the right choice for you.
When I was in high school a kid at my school named Toby wanted his girlfriend Khloe to have sex with him and he was constantly pressuring her. He was not a good person and had a reputation for drugs and drinking. His girlfriend broke up with him after he kept pressuring her and he even slammed her publicly on Instagram, embarrassing her in front of everyone.
A couple of weeks after the break up, Khloe realized what a jerk Toby actually was. She was grateful she didn’t give in and have sex with him.
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If someone better comes along would you regret that you wasted your virginity on this person?
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Reality star Snooki Polizzi regrets losing her virginity
Snooki lost her virginity to a high school senior, who she thought liked her. When she went back to school after it happened, the guy totally ignored her, and she realized that he was a jerk and she felt terrible about the situation.
“When I saw him again in class, he ignored me. I was like, ‘Cool. This is what life is? Great.’ I definitely regret my first time. It sucked.” – Rolling Stone Magazine