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Someone from school sent me an anonymous message online

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Bryn Connor

Hi, Bryn I really need your help!

On this Saharah web site, you can comment anything about another person anonymously.
I got a message saying:

Stop pretending to be someone your not. Your Instagram name is  X you make it seem like you’re one of the cool kids and yet in real life, you barely speak and have a very limited group of friends.

I don’t know what to reply back?

plz help

Anonymous, Australia


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Just because someone says something about you it doesn’t mean that it is true. The person saying it could be insecure, have their own agenda or have whack perceptions of the world.

When a person criticizes you, it is important to consider the source. If the village idiot said something about you, I am sure you wouldn’t listen and would ignore any feedback they had to offer on your life.

I wouldn’t respond, you don’t have anything to gain by responding to the comments. Pretend you didn’t see it and if anyone says anything to you in person, below are a few things you could say.

  1. I am too busy with my real friends to worry what people are saying about me.
  2. If you’re waiting for me to care, you better pack a lunch. It’s gonnabe a while
  3. You have the rest of your life to be a jerk why not take a day off?
  4. It would be nice if your mouth had a snooze button.

Wishing you all good things.


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