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What to say to someone considering a break up

What to say to someone considering a break up

When people are considering a break up they may come to you for advice or a shoulder to cry on. It is important to find the right thing to say, so you don’t get the blame for their bad choice later on. If you feel your friend’s partner is a jerk and you share what you really think if they get back together, your relationship with your friend could be extremely awkward in the future.

A good question to ask your friend is if they are happy with themselves outside of the relationship. Your friend needs to consider if they are in a place that they really want it to be and if this relationship of a distraction of a bigger problem? Relationships are supposed to add to your life and make it better not leave you feeling worse.

The only person who knows what’s best for them is the person going through the break-up. Whether your friend decides to stay or go the main thing is to reflect on how they grew as a person while they spent time with their significant other, that way they will frame the relationship as a positive experience no matter what happens.

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What to say to someone considering a breakup

  1. One of the hardest things in life is whether to try harder or to walk away.
  2. You will never find the right person if you never let go of the wrong one.
  3. Somewhere someone is looking for exactly what you have to offer.
  4. Don’t ask why someone keeps hurting you, ask why you keep letting them.
  5. Girls put up with a lot of bullshit, women move on.
  6. Sometimes love gone wrong is actually life gone right.
  7. There comes a time when you have to choose between turning the page or closing the book.
  8. If you ever find yourself in the wrong story, leave!
  9. Ending is better than pending.
  10. If you can’t figure out where you stand with someone it might be better to stop standing and start walking.
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When you find out that your friend has split up with their boyfriend or girlfriend your reaction is going to depend on whether or not you liked their boo.

It can be painful to watch a friend date or hook up with someone who is not good for them, treats them like rubbish, and is an all-around jerk. If it has been going on for a while, hopefully, this is the final time and your friend will smarten up and move on to a better situation.

You have to be careful what you say to someone because as much as they complain about the person they are dating, they will turn around and defend them and it could permanently affect your relationship. It’s kind of like your family, you may complain about them but it pisses you off when other people do.

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Kind words for a friend going through a breakup

  1. Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because that asshole is going to be someone else’s problem.
  2. Sometimes a knight in shining armor turns out to be a loser in tin foil
  3. Relationships are a lot like algebra. Sometimes you look at your ex and wondered why?
  4. If life can remove someone you never dreamed of losing, it can replace them with someone you never dreamed of having.
  5. If you can love the wrong person that much, imagine how much you can love the right one
  6. Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you
  7. Getting back with your ex is like taking a shower and putting your dirty underwear back on.
  8. There is no reason to stay if there is a good reason to go.
  9. You need to forget what you feel and remember what you deserve.
  10. The first step to getting what you want is having the courage to get rid f what you don’t want.
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What can you say to your friend or daughter who has just been dumped? Nobody wants to hear that the person that they have just spent time with is a total loser (even if they are).

It can be painful both physically and emotionally when you feel like your heart has been broken in two and stomped on.

Right after the breakup, it is hard to see that things will ever get better again. People tend to feel extreme emotions and think crazy thoughts like their destiny is spending their life alone, sitting home alone on a Saturday night watching rom coms. It can be paralyzing when you feel like you may never ever meet someone again.

Your loved one has to figure out their own way forward, but having you there offering a warm presence and kind words is extremely helpful.

Below are a few kind, uplifting things you can say, as well as a few zingers in case you just can’t help yourself.

What to say to someone going through a breakup

  1. One day someone will walk into your life and make you see why it never worked out with anyone else.
  2. Breakups aren’t always meant for make ups, sometimes they are meant for wakeups.
  3. Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can come together.
  4. No relationship is ever a waste of your time. If it didn’t bring you what you want it taught you what you don’t want.
  5. There’s a guy out there who’s going to be really happy that you didn’t get back together with your crappy ex-boyfriend.
  6. I’m sorry your relationship with the psycho that everyone warned you about didn’t work out.
  7. Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it’s better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting them back together.
  8. Move on. It’s just a chapter in the past. But don’t close the book, just turn the page
  9. Someone, somewhere is looking for exactly what you have to offer.
  10. Sometimes you have to give up on people, not because you don’t care, because they don’t.
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