Clever replies when people ASK IF YOU'RE A VIRGIN

Whether you’re a virgin or not it really is not anybody’s business but your own. Your friends or the new person who you are seeing may want to know, but you are no under no obligation to answer.

Being a virgin is nothing to be embarrassed about but you might not be ready to share your lack of a sex life with everyone you know. Talking about the intimate details of your sex life (or lack of) isn’t really first date conversation.

Some people are waiting for the right person and don’t want to give into peer pressure. Why on earth would you want to lose your virginity with the first idiot who comes along?

If you want to give an answer, that doesn’t give away too much information, try one of our comebacks below.

21 Best comebacks when people want to know if you’re a virgin

1. That’s classified.

2. Tell me what you think the answer is after you’ve slept with me.

3. I may not be Fred Flintstone but I bet I can make your bed rock!

4. A long time ago, in a galaxy far, far away. In other words, I would really rather not say.

5. No one is a virgin life screws us all.

6. Is there a reason that you need to know?

7. Now that is a very peculiar and personal question to ask a person that you don’t know very well.

8. Whether I have sex or not is only relevant to myself and whomever I am with. And that’s definitely isn’t you.

9. No, I’m a pisces.

10. Why are you inquiring? Is it because you’re a virgin and you’re looking for help with that?

11. Now why are you asking? You plan to do something about it?

12. I only provide that information on a need to know basis. Unless you’re my doctor or boyfriend, you don’t need to know.

13. Why, you’re saving yourself for me?

14. What are you offering up?

15. In my faith we believe in waiting for marriage.

16. I have been having a bit of a dry spell at the moment.

17. I’ve been single for so long that I feel like a born again virgin.

18. At my age, if I was a virgin it would probably be a little unusual.

19. I think being a 30 year old virgin would be odd.

20. I lost my virginity a couple of years ago with someone special.

21. Why? You recruiting new swinger club members?

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Definition of a virgin

A virgin is basically someone who hasn’t had sex yet. Now, what counts as sexual stuff can differ based on what you believe in or where you come from. But in general, it’s about doing things with someone else that gets your private parts involved. 

Remember, it’s important to respect whether someone wants to do lose their virginity or not. And let’s steer clear of being mean or judging folks who decide to hold off on the sexy stuff until they are married.

How to deal with people calling you a virgin

When someone throws the “virgin” label your way, it can be smart a bit. But keep in mind, it’s entirely your call whether you dive into the world of intimacy or take a pass. Here’s some advice for handling that scenario:

1. Feel the impact: It can be rough when someone calls you out like that, but remember, it doesn’t define who you are. Your choice about sex is personal, and your own values and beliefs matter.

2. Show yourself some love: Embrace yourself just as you are. Whether you’re down for the deed or not, it’s your call. Be kind to yourself, even if others aren’t.

3. Teach them a thing or two: If someone’s being a jerk about your sex life or lack of it, clue them in on how their words can be hurtful. Help them get that everyone’s got their own beliefs, and we should all respect that.

4. Lean on your crew: If hurtful words are getting you down, reach out to friends, family, or a therapist for backup. Talking it out can help you handle your emotions and boost your confidence in your choices.

5. Stick to your guns: Forget what others think. Stay true to your values and what makes you happy. Do stuff that lines up with what you’re all about, and let the haters hate.

Keep in mind, getting tagged as a “virgin” doesn’t sum you up – who you are goes way beyond that. We all roll with our individual sets of beliefs and values. Take a chance to soak up lessons from comments, and make a solid pledge to work on better vibes that let you treat yourself and everyone else with some good ol’ respect and love.

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Joe Jonas lost his virginity when he was 20

Joe Jonas lost virginity at 20

Joe Jonas shared with Vulture magazine when he lost his virginity.

“I did other stuff before then, but I was sexually active at 20. I’m glad I waited for the right person because you look back and you go, ‘That girl was batshit crazy. I’m glad I didn’t go there.’”

I don’t know why, but he seems to need to share the juicy details of his private life. He shared on the details on Reddit, at least he practices safe sex.

“I lost my virginity to this girl named Ashley. You can probably just Google it. It’s pretty easy to figure out. I dated a girl named Ashley, so just Google it to figure out which Ashley that is. It’s quite the great story because I didn’t have any condoms, so I went to our drummer, Jack’s room, who was my roommate at the time and I demolished his room looking for them. Found them underneath his underwear drawer. When he came home, he thought somebody broke into his room because his whole room was demolished because I was in dire need. Needed to happen then and now. Safety first, kids.”

The Role of counselling and self care

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When you are dealing with being called virgin by others and you find it stressful, consider getting support from a professional. Talking to a counselor is a great way to work through a challenging situation, and help you find some strategies to work through the person’s behaviour.

Better Help is a great resource where you can talk to a counselor from the comfort of your own home. 

Taking care of your own needs isn’t selfish, and you will feel better in the long run.

Got any comments, questions or tips for dealing with someone who asks if you are a virgin? Share them in the comments below.

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14 Comments

  1. I have one if you’re not looking to hook up but they are. “How about you F someone else? I’m sure they’ll be willing”

  2. There are worse things to be than a virgin. Hep b and Hiv + are two examples.
    Or
    If I (a virgin) had any reason to be unhappy about my condition, I could change it. How about you?

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