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Clever comebacks when you are called a flirt

Clever comebacks if someone says that you’re a flirt

Some people are super flirty and charming by nature. They have breezy personalities and engage in a fun way with everyone they meet. Sometimes their friendly ways are interpreted by someone as being interested in them.

The difference between flirting with someone and general back and forth banter is the attraction level. Even if you are physically attracted to someone, it doesn’t necessarily mean you are interested in dating them. After all, personality is important, too.

The one thing that can be detrimental about being a flirt is nobody wants to date a person who flirts with everyone. All of us want to feel special or chosen by the person we want to go out with. No one wants to be anyone’s second choice, so if you really like someone, give the person your full attention and stop flirting with everyone else.

When your friends are giving you a hard time because of your flirty ways, use one of our fun comebacks.

If you can think of a better flirting comeback, let us know.

Vote for the best comeback when people call you a flirt

I’m not flirting. I’m just being extra nice to someone who is extra attractive.
It's not my fault everything I say is smoother than the cream cheese on a bagel.
It's called flirting when you are in a relationship but being friendly when you are single.
My version of flirting is to look at someone I find attractive several times and hope they are braver than I am.
I don't need to flirt, I will seduce him with my awkwardness.


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Yeah, I'm a bit of a FLIRT

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2 Responses

    1. Amy, I love your comeback. I am going to make it one of the poll answers.

      One of the original replies is we find what we are looking for.


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