There is probably no greater shock than going from a care free life to becoming a new mom. As a new mom, you will find yourself on call 24/7 and you are now thinking about someone else’s needs before your own. Staying at home with an infant is a big departure from your old life of infinite freedom, and going out whenever you want to.
Sure, having kids is a sacrifice but it is also one of the most meaningful life experiences there is. As a parent you learn the true meaning of unconditional love, you are teaching someone how to be in the world, and you really think about your values and passing them on to your child.
Along with your motherhood journey, there will be ups and downs and you will learn from all of them. You don’t realize it because you are focused on raising your kids, by becoming a mom you personally grow tremendously as a person.
At the end of their life, most people will tell you that having children is one of the best things that ever happened to them.
When someone new has joined the motherhood club and they tell you how hard it is, make them laugh with one of our fun comebacks.
10 best comebacks when someone tells you parenting is hard
1. I never thought it would be this hard. I am grateful for people who are truthful about how hard it can be.
2. I never knew that a shower and a hot meal would become such a luxury!
3. It definitely has its challenges, but I’m learning and growing every day.
4. I never knew I could function on so little sleep – it’s like a superpower!
5. It sure is a big challenge going from the single life to busy parents.
6. It’s a good thing babies are so adorable, they make up for the lack of sleep.
7. I’m pretty sure I’ve set a world record for the number of diaper changes in a day.
8. Motherhood has a pretty big learning curve. I hear it gets easier.
9. It’s a mix of emotions, but I fought so hard to become a mom with IVF. I am truly cherishing every moment with my baby.
10. Yep, us moms have to master the art of doing everything with one hand while holding a baby.
Why don’t most people know how hard it is to be a mom?
People who don’t have kids may not fully understand the challenges of motherhood because it’s a deeply personal and individual experience.
Society romanticizes being a new mom and often bruised over the challenges of motherhood that new moms face. Often mom’s think they are the only person in the world who is having a hard time, when it’s not the case most moms find it overwhelming.
Each mother’s journey is unique, and what one woman finds challenging may not be the same for another. It’s important to create open and supportive conversations about the realities of motherhood to foster understanding and empathy.
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Amanda found becoming a new mom overwhelming
Amanda had always dreamed of becoming a mother, but nothing could have prepared her for the whirlwind of emotions that accompanied the arrival of her first child. As she cradled her newborn in her arms, she was filled with an overwhelming mix of love, joy, and a profound sense of responsibility.
During the tender moments and sleepless nights, Amanda found herself grappling with the sheer enormity of the new role she had undertaken. The demands of caring for a newborn, coupled with the physical and emotional changes she experienced, left her feeling exhausted and at times, uncertain.
Despite the challenges, Amanda sought solace in the support of her loved ones and the camaraderie of fellow mothers. She discovered that she was not alone in her feelings of being overwhelmed and that it was okay to ask for help.
With the reassurance and guidance of those around her, Amanda gradually found her footing and began to embrace the journey of motherhood with newfound strength and resilience.
As the days turned into weeks and months, Amanda’s initial feelings of being overwhelmed gradually transformed into a profound sense of fulfillment and purpose. She marveled at the tiny milestones of her child’s development and found immense joy in the bond they shared.
Through the rollercoaster of emotions and the challenges she faced, Amanda emerged as a stronger, more resilient woman, navigating the complexities of new motherhood with grace and unwavering love.
The Role of counselling and self care
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Taking care of your own needs isn’t selfish, and you will feel better in the long run.