Bullying

Not everyone you meet will like you

Not everyone is going to like you, it’s the cold hard truth and maybe it sucks, but that’s just reality. Some folks will never become your super fans no matter how much time and energy you invest into trying to win them over. Try not to take it personally, because there is nothing you can do, you have no control over other people’s opinions.

You are not going to have mental affinity with every single person that you meet, and that’s OK. When you think about it, there are people that you just naturally relate to like more than others. Think back to when you met someone you instantly liked and you just got each other, the jokes, the shows and people you followed.

If someone doesn’t like you don’t waste your valuable life energy trying to win the person over. Be kind, be civil, think nice thoughts about the person, and move on with your life and focus on yourself.

Don’t change who you are to get others to like you

Don’t change who you are to please others, you have so many unique and wonderful gifts that people appreciate about you. Focus on the great people in your life who already know how amazing you are, and what you bring to the table in a friendship or relationship.

Think about it, why do you really care if someone doesn’t like you? In the grand scheme of your life, it doesn’t matter, you have got shit to do, you are an important person, you were put on this earth for a reason.

If you keep getting the same negative response from people, you may want to reflect on your behaviour in certain situations. Perhaps there is something you need to change in the way that you relate to others? OK, this is going to sound really woo woo, but consider what are you putting out in the world towards people. Are you being critical or negative towards individuals who have a strange response to you?

I have found that when you think negative thoughts about people they can actually sense it. When I stopped thinking negative thoughts about people my life totally transformed and I no longer had issues with anybody. The person may think that you don’t like them and they could be projecting that back to you.

At the end of the day, keep on being you and focus on the great things in your life.

Learn how parents caught bullies with hidden cameras

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Many parents have used cameras if they suspect that their child is being bullied at school and they want to get to the bottom of what is really going on. Jacqueline, the mother of a 10 year old, could not understand what was happening at school causing her daughter to be so upset and withdrawn. After asking her daughter and trying to figure out what was wrong without getting any answers, she decided to take matters into her own hands. Jacqueline purchased a small camera that looked like a happy face button and put it on her daughter’s clothing.

What she found out was surprising, her daughter’s supposed best friend was acting like a bully and excluding her daughter from their friend group. Knowing what was really happening gave Jacqueline the tools to help her daughter deal with the situation. Kids can miss subtle social cues, sometimes they don’t actually know what is going on and can’t articulate the problem when you ask themwhat’s bothering them.

Using a camera to capture bullying may not be legal everywhere, using a hidden camera you may be breaking a law. For some parents taking that chance is worth it, in the case of Kandy Escotto who found out her five year old son was being bullied by his kindergarten teacher. Her son’s teacher, RosalbSuarez,who was named teacher of the year was caught on tape verbally bullying her son.

May our our readers have reached out to us about hidden cameras they have used. Below are the top recommendations for catching bullying at school

3 Hidden Cameras Parents Recommend for Capturing School Bullying

The smiley face button hidden camera

The happy face button is the perfect hidden camera for school age children, it can be pinned on your child’s clothing, and the button records audio and video. You can also set it to audio only, the unit is time and date stamped, which needs to be set. The camera comes with a 4 gig SD card, you can expand the memory up to 16 gig.

A water bottle spy camera is suitable for catching classroom bullying

Your child can leave the water bottle on their desk and point the camera lens in the direction of the person you are trying to catch on camera. The water bottle can also be set to record remotely or by motion detection. A water bottle is the perfect cover and placing it on your child’s desk you will most likely capture everything you want to see.

Spy camera hidden in pen

My friend placed a hidden camera pen in her son’s shirt pocket and captured video of a boy who was trying to cause trouble for her son. She had close ups and could see that the child who was the bully was not of a right mind, almost paranoid. Having such great close up footage helped her assess the situation and guide the conversation with her child’s teacher to sort the situation out.

Great comebacks when people call you a freak

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Urban Dictionary has a pretty good definition of freak, “A term that is a ‘catch-all’ for mainstream society to use to describe anyone who they may believe isn’t mainstream. Such as mallgoths, punks, hardcore kids, emos, metalheads, goths and whatnot… pretty much used to describe anyone wearing black. ”

There are a lot of basic beige people in the world who criticize or judge anybody who is a little bit different. Really, who wants to be ridiculously normal lacking any personality of their own? Those are the people who are afraid to stand out, take any risks and take any big challenges in their life.

If you look at any famous blogger, actor, singer or artist, they are all trying to promote what is unique or some would say freakish about them. It is your unique talents and differences that make you great. In a world with so much noise, you can’t possibly stand out and make a splash in the world if you are like everyone else. It’s time to get your freak on.

If people are giving you a hard time calling you a freak, use one of our clever comebacks below.

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Stephen King could be considered to be very weird. He is an infamous best selling
author who has been publishing fiction horror books for the last fifty years. He is known to put out a book a year and many of his books have been adapted into films.

The guy even lives in a house with gargoyles. If you met King you would think he is a little different and out there, but it’s that difference that makes him legendary.

Chris Angel is a celebrated magician illusionist made a living by freaking people out showcasing the impossible with his magic. One of his first illusions was making his mother float in their family den! Now, that’s pretty impressive!

Some would consider what Chris does weird, but he used unique talent for illusions has made him stand out and become one of the top talents in the world.

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Top ten clean comebacks when someone is giving you a hard time

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People pick on other people who they think can’t defend themselves or won’t respond to a verbal attack. By picking on someone who doesn’t respond the bully feels strong and powerful over the other person.

It can be challenging when you are a genuinely nice person and getting into arguments and putting people down just isn’t your thing. I get it because I am the same way, but at some point, you have to put up a few boundaries and let people know that it isn’t OK to talk to you in a rude or derogatory way, you are not a punching bag for verbal abuse.

You also don’t have to lower yourself and use derogatory language, you can let the person know that their insults are not OK by using one of our clean comebacks. Once you have said what you need to say, move on and don’t dwell on it, don’t ruin your day thinking about the low-level person.

If someone is continually verbally bullying you, you can walk away from the relationship, not all relationships were meant to last forever. Putting up with abuse is not healthy for anyone.

Shut the person up for good with one of our clever comebacks below.

Clean comebacks you can use when someone is treating you badly

I may not be perfect but at least I am not you.
The only thing wrong with me is I’m talking to you.
Whatever is eating at you must be suffering horribly!
I don’t care what everyone else says. I don’t think you’re that bad.
I hope the rest of your day is as pleasant as you are.
They say opposites attract, I hope you meet someone good looking, intelligent and cultured.
May you run out of toilet paper when you need it most.
You do realize that people just tolerate you?
May all your bacon burn!
There are empty Petri dishes more cultured than you.

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Clever comebacks when people call you gay

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If an idiot is being a jerk and calling you gay in a derogatory way, you could tell them that either way, they’d never be your type. There is nothing wrong with being gay, or swinging any which way if someone is calling you gay as an insult, use one of our clever comebacks.

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Bullying

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