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What to say when someone asks, “Are you stalking me?”

What to say when someone asks if you are a stalker

Urban Dictionary defines stalking as “To follow and/or spy on someone you have feelings for. Those feelings need not be of a kind and loving nature. People who stalk are usually obsessed with the stalkee.”

In this modern age, we are all stalkers, most people have looked at a friend’s Instagram post when we haven’t heard from them to see if they have been online in a while. Yep, that’s pretty normal activity in the digital age.

What it isn’t normal is when you find you are consumed with someone and can’t stop thinking about what they’re doing. If you find you are driving by your boyfriend’s house several times a night and hiding out in the bushes, you might want to give your head a shake. Maybe consider if it is worth being with someone you can’t trust who is making you act in a crazy way.

If someone accuses you of being a stalker, whether it is true or not, use one of our clever comebacks to shut the person up.

Vote for the best comeback when someone asks if you are stalking them

Stalking is such a strong word. I prefer intense research of an individual.
I am not a stalker, I am an unpaid investigator.
Yah I am, and it is annoying when the person you are stalking does not update their status regularly.
Me? Stalk you? No, thanks. Even I have my standards...


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Funny stalker meme

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  1. I never meant for things for go so wrong. I’m sorry for the distress. I’m hoping you can forgive me so we can be okay again

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