How to respond when you are told you will never get a boyfriend

When someone says that you will never get a boyfriend, they are being mean. Unless the mean girl is a member of Psychic Friends, there is no way that she will know what is in store for you or can predict the fabulous men (or women) in your future.

Some people are just mean, small-minded, and petty. Don’t let the person get to you or listen to any of the rubbish they tell you. I am sure you will have plenty of wonderful relationships in your future.

First relationships are something to look forward to and usually a wonderful experience. It is amazing to feel close to your crush, and the intensity of attraction of your first boyfriend or girlfriend is usually very memorable.

Don’t let some imbecile make you feel bad. Your first relationship will happen when the time is right for you.

If you want to say something back to verbally slap the who loves to create drama, use one of our clever comebacks below.

9 best comebacks when someone says you won’t get a boyfriend

1) And you will never have a husband .. . well not your own husband anyway.

2) Who says I am into boys?

3) Please, my phone battery last longer than your relationships.

4) Pretty girls don’t need a boyfriend..they have a few boyfriends.

5) Well I certainly wouldn’t want your sloppy seconds.

6) I’d rather be single than have really low standards.

7) Who says I want a boyfriend?

8) I am on my own by choice and someone would have to be pretty amazing to change that.

9) Your relationship gives me a lot of inspiration to stay single.


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Why do people say you won’t get a boyfriend?

People might say hurtful things like that for various reasons, including jealousy, insecurity, or simply to be mean. It’s important to remember that their words don’t define your worth as a person and to focus on surrounding yourself with positive and supportive people.

When it feels like you are the last person on earth to get a boyfriend

A lot of people feel left out like they are the only person in their group of friends or social circle to find a boyfriend or girlfriend. We all have a different journey and timeline, and your Mr. Right could be just around the corner. Some folks take longer an other to find a partner and that’s OK.

It’s not a race when it comes to finding a someone to date, there is no timeline or expiry date. Meeting someone is also a numbers game and you need to put yourself out there and meet different people.

Have faith that there is someone out there great for you, and they will come into your life at just the right moment. While you’re single, you can take time to enjoy yourself and put yourself first.

What to say when someone says you will never have a boyfriend

More comebacks you may like

The Role of counselling and self care

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When a person says you will never get a boyfriend it can be stressful, consider getting support from a professional. Talking to a counsellor is a great way to work through a challenging situation, and help you find some strategies to work through the person’s behaviour.

Better Help is a great resource where you can talk to a counselor from the comfort of your own home. 

Taking care of your own needs isn’t selfish, and you will feel better in the long run.

Got any comments, questions or tips for dealing with people who say you’ll never get a boyfriend? Share them in the comments below.

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  1. There is no faith in a man
    Not even in a brother
    So if you girls really need to love
    Then love one another
    -Aaya Yassin

  2. Fortunately, I don’t need one. I won’t let boys turn me into a jerk like you let boys turned you into one.

  3. Them: You will never get a boyfriend
    Me: Yeah I know, because I have a girlfriend.
    Them: Eww that’s so gay!
    Me: Awww, it’s so cute that you’re too stupid to know that people can like both boys and girls!

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