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Top ten comebacks for someone who bad mouths others

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It can be awkward if you are hanging out with someone, and they start bad mouthing some of your mutual friends. You know the old saying, “If someone gossips to you, they will gossip about you.”

Try not engage in conversations that tear other people down. You may not feel comfortable saying something back, but at some point, you have to stand up for your friends who aren’t there. If you don’t say something, you will become known as someone who gossips as well.

Don’t tell me what was said about me. Tell me why they were so comfortable to say it to you. – Jay Z

Mandy, who was in high school, had a nasty side, loved to badmouth others, and stir up drama. There was a teacher at her high school that she didn’t like because he called her on her bad behaviour in class. She started spreading rumours about her teacher and the other students, saying that he hit on girls and had flirted with her even though it wasn’t true. An evaluation of student safety was sent around to the classes, and she wrote down that this particular teacher made her feel unsafe even though he had never done anything to her.

The school principal talked to the teacher because of Mandy’s badmouthing. Luckily, the principal knew that Mandy was a troublemaker and didn’t take it any further. If the principal hadn’t been switched on, the badmouthing could have negatively affected the teacher’s career.

Use our clever comebacks and leave the person who badmouths others speechless. Let them know it is not OK to talk about people negatively.

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Top ten comebacks for people who badmouth others

  1. People who talk crap about others will be reincarnated as toilet roll.
  2. When you talk so much crap about others I don’t know whether to hand you toilet roll or a breath mint.
  3. I can’t respect you if you talk shit about all of the people who you run with.
  4. If you go around bad mouthing people behind their back, the risk you run is at some point that they are going to talk to each other.
  5. Too bad you can’t count jumping to conclusions and running your mouth as exercise.
  6. I hope you don’t choke on all that shit you talk.
  7. If you ran like your mouth you’d be in great shape.
  8. I believe in freedom of speech but some people need to know when to shut up.
  9. Since you love talking shit behind people’s backs so much, you may as well bend down and kiss my ass while you’re down there.
  10. You have a bad case of spewing shit from the mouth. I hope you get well soon.

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What to say when someone tells you to mind your own business

Great comebacks when someone tells you to mind your own business

When someone tells you to mind your own business they are basically annoyed and have had enough of your advice. They are rudely letting you know that the conversation is over and that you need to back off.

If someone keeps coming and asking for your advice and then tells you to mind your own business it can be confusing and hurtful, unless of course you’re meddling and you should mind your own business.

It’s never a good idea to get wrapped in other people’s drama or waste your time helping them continually figure things out. Often people go to others for advice and then turn around and blame someone else when things don’t work out.

If somebody tells you to mind your own damn business and you want to put them in their place, use one of our comebacks below.

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What to say to someone who thinks their life sucks

We all have days that are better than others, when people feel depressed they tend to focus on the negative. Sometimes people need to redirect their focus to looking at the good instead of the bad. If you have someone in your life who needs a bit of cheering up and an attitude adjustment, try one of these great quotes.

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Top ten comebacks for someone who feels sorry for themselves

Check out our clever comebacks for people who feel sorry for themselves

Do you know someone who always seems to feel sorry for him or herself?  You try to help them out by giving advice that is never used or accepted? It can get a little frustrating listening to someone complain when they are not willing to change. If you get tired of constantly listening to a pity party, you may find these comebacks useful.

  1. Cry yourself a river, Build yourself a bridge, and get over it!
  2. You can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep rereading the last one.
  3. Put on your big girl panties and get over it.
  4. When shit happens, turn it into fertilizer!
  5. If we all threw our problem in a pile and we saw everyone else’s, we’d grab ours back.
  6. Oh, boo hoo, your life is so hard. Maybe some kids in Africa will send you some money.
  7. There better be a damn good gift bag when your pity party is over.
  8. Would you like some cheese with that whine?
  9. I feel sorry for myself having to hear how sorry you feel for yourself.
  10. I’d love to attend your pity party but I’m allergic to whine.

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What to say to someone who needs encouragement

Kind words of ENCOURAGEMENT

At some point in our life, we all go through difficult times and we need some cheering up. We may experience a failure, a break-up or life just doesn’t pan out the way we expected. Most of us can cope with one area of our lives not going well but when two or three areas start crumbling it can feel overwhelming.

It can be hard to see the positives at the moment when you are going through a challenging situation. Often, many of life’s most difficult challenges lead us on to a bigger life path that we would never have planned for.

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Oprah felt terrible when she was fired from her TV news job. After being fired, she landed on her feet when she started her career as a talk show host. She said being a host felt so natural for her it was like breathing. If Oprah hadn’t been pushed out of her TV news job she may not have found her life calling.

All life journeys have ups and downs, sometimes you can’t see the rainbow when you are in the middle of a snowstorm.

Here are some kind words to support someone who is going through a challenging time.

What you can say to someone going through a hard time

  1. Don’t give up, you still have a couple of mother f**kers to prove wrong.
  2. If you want something you have never had, you have to do something you have never done.
  3. Problems are not stop signs, they’re guidelines.
  4. Go the extra mile, it’s never crowded there.
  5. You’re not a mess you’re brave for trying.
  6. Hard work beats talent when talent does not work hard.
  7. If a door doesn’t open it’s because it’s not your door.
  8. The struggle your in today is developing the strength that you are going to need tomorrow.
  9. All flowers grow through dirt.
  10. It does not matter how slow you go as long as you don’t stop.
Kind words for someone who needs encouragement

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