Are you ever overwhelmed with the urge to tell someone to shut up? There are chatty people who engage in genuine conversations which is fine, but non-stop talkers who talk at you are frustrating and exhausting.
Some people monopolize conversations, stopping anyone else from getting a word in. Often, the conversation hog doesn’t get to the point or goes off on tangents, driving their listeners crazy. The funny thing is that they don’t even notice that they have lost their audience.
If you can’t take it anymore, here are a few things you can say to let the windbag know that you have had enough.
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What to say to someone who won’t shut up or stop talking
1. Can I share what I need to say without the constant interruptions?
2. Some people just lack the ability to realize that everyone in the room wants them to be quiet.
3. You sound so sexy, when you’re not talking.
4. You would be much more likable if it wasn’t for that hole in your mouth that noise comes out of.
5. You know what’s funny. Not you, so be quiet.
6. It’s never too late to shut up and mind your own business.
7. It’s time to shut up. If I wanted your opinion all of the time I would have married you.
8. In case you didn’t see the look I just gave you. Be quiet!
9. Remember that time you shut the up? Me neither.
10. It’s time to be quiet. If I wanted your opinion all of the time I would have married you.
Definition of someone who won’t shut up
A person who won’t shut up is someone who talks continuously and excessively without giving others a chance to partake in the conversation. This type of behaviour is really disrespectful and frustrating towards other people because it keeps them from expressing their opinions.
Of course, when someone just goes careening with words, they won’t stop to notice their surroundings. Thus, conversations with them are never balanced — you will do the listening and they will do the talking.
How to deal with someone who won’t shut up
How can you talk someone out of talking way too much when you can’t get into the conversation?
It’s hard, but with these techniques, you might be able to get an opening.
1. Be assertive with people who won’t stop talking
When dealing with a loquacious individual, be direct and honest with your intentions. By expressing what you really want to say, you can reduce misunderstanding and possible conflict.
2. Set boundaries
Boundaries are really helpful in setting your limits which you will certainly need around a talkative person.
You can share these boundaries with them and point out the things that you’re “okay” and “not okay” with. This time it’s their endless talk, so you make sure you get the point across.
3. Redirect the conversation
If you want to shut a person up, you can interject and shift the conversation to newer subjects. In this way, you can sway their focus. You can also finally participate and balance the conversation.
4. Be patient
As usual, they’ll go on a roll talking about the same things, blah, blah, blah.
For that, you’re going to need ample patience. You’re going to have your time though, but in the meantime, stay in your place and listen.
5. Seek support
Like all things that exude bad energy, dealing with a person who won’t shut up drains your mind and body.
During these times, it is paramount you lean on family and friends for support. They’ll keep you cheerful, at the same time motivated, to keep going.
All that endless chatter will make a conversation impossible. And that’s a social fault to begin with.
A good conversation will only happen if people talk and listen at the same time. Now, a person who talks too much won’t realize this. You’re going to have to communicate it with them.
However, if they’re still at it, you can always cut the interactions short and put yourself first.
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Famous people who people say won’t shut up
If you’re a fan of these public figures, you know too well that these people have a knack for talking way too much.
If only you had the power to tell them to shut up!
1. Kanye West
Since Kanye West’s a rapper maybe he can get a free pass for talking too much? Well, if only that’s the only time he talks a lot.
On many occasions, Kanye has been criticized for his long speeches and winding rants. Critics were quick to point out that the musician doesn’t give others a chance to speak at all.
2. Donald Trump
Oh, well, the former President of the United States talks a lot. Donald Trump is a power figure, and he has a wide influence that he enjoys exercising. In what way? By talking and dominating conversations, without giving anyone a chance to dive in.
3. Ellen DeGeneres
Ellen DeGeneres is a talk-show host, of course, she’s going to talk tons.
Talking isn’t actually the issue here, it’s Ellen’s inability to let others speak up their own thoughts — why? Because she allegedly eats up all the conversations from celebrities and former employees.
If only it’s that easy to frankly tell someone to shut up, we wouldn’t have this conversation. But countering bad behaviour with a bad reaction is setting the entire relationship on fire.
Always show understanding and kindness because behaviours are really hard to alter. If you’ve been doing it for so long, it becomes your personality.
Communication is still the groundwork of protecting yourself and the other party. If you get any opening to get into the conversation, do it and make it count.
The Role of counselling and self care
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When you are dealing with someone who won’t shut up and you find it stressful, consider getting support from a professional. Talking to a counselor is a great way to work through a challenging situation, and help you find some strategies to work through the person’s behaviour.
Better Help is a great resource where you can talk to a counselor from the comfort of your own home.
Taking care of your own needs isn’t selfish, and you will feel better in the long run.
Omg these comebacks are awesome same as all the other top ten comebacks, i love these so much and they will really help me
Great to hear the the comebacks will be useful! Bryn
I have one for if someone says you stink. Boy: man someone stinks in here. Boy 2: then you must be smelling yourself.
Number 4,6, and 7 are awesome thx
i’m sure whatever you have to say can wait until you’re smarter.
Here’s one I came across on a wallpaper. It will be handy in the workplace – “Work in silence. Let your success be your noise”.
Stop talking about yourself
these are pretty cool. there’s one specifically i like (it might not be up there but i think it was): i think what you have to say can wait until you’re smarter.
and the ones ive come up with: 1.if you had any less brain cells, you would be sitting in a field, eating grass and moo-ing; so dont waste them trying to prove a point nobody wants to hear.
2. dont waste the little you have by using it to force useless words around the room– (extend it), nobody cares that you dont like anybody (or (that person)) so it would be better if you held your ideas to yourself and and save them for a time they might actually save YOUR life.
🙂