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What to say when someone asks about the cuts on your arm

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What to say when people ask about the cuts on your arm

Hey Bryn,

My close relative died a couple of years ago, and I was sent into a depressed state and USED to cut myself. I got help, but I have self-harm scars on my arms and when people see them they question it. I need help because it pains me to go through that pain again. Explaining it is hard and I wanted to know if you had any comebacks I could use?

Anonymous, Russia

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I am sorry to hear about your loss and the challenging time you went through. I am glad to hear that you are doing better.

We all have personal things that we go through that people don’t need to know about. Don’t feel like you are obligated to share your personal information with anyone. Just because they ask, doesn’t mean you have to provide a detailed answer, unless they are your good friend and you chose to do so.

Below are a few comebacks you can use to brush it off and change the subject.

Wishing you all good things.

Bryn

Clever replies to explain the cuts on your arms

I was getting busy with Edward Scissorhands.
I was captured by pirates.
I got into a knife fight with a couple robbers. They're dead now.
The FBI put a microchip in my arm and I had to get it out myself.

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Why do people cut themselves?

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Self-harm, including cutting, can be a way for people to cope with intense emotional pain or feelings of numbness. It can serve as a release for pent-up emotions or provide a sense of control in situations where a person may feel helpless. Some people also report feeling a sense of relief or even euphoria after self-harming.

Self-harm is not a healthy or effective long-term coping mechanism and can lead to serious physical and emotional harm. If you or someone you know is struggling with self-harm, it is important to seek professional help.

Better Help is a great resource where you can talk to a counselor from the comfort of their own home.

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When you are dealing with someone asks about the cuts on your arm and you find it stressful, consider getting support from a professional. Talking to a counselor is a great way to work through a challenging situation, and help you find some strategies to work through the person’s behaviour.

Better Help is a great resource where you can talk to a counselor from the comfort of your own home.

Taking care of your own needs isn’t selfish, and you will feel better in the long run.

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