15 Funny ways to invite people over to your place

If you want to hang out with friends or someone special, it may be up to you to take the initiative to make it happen. If you are waiting for an invitation, you could be waiting for a long time.

Yep, it can be nerve racking asking people over, especially if you really like someone. We all want to seem casual when we are really into someone because nobody wants to appear too eager or desperate.

Here are some funny casual invitations to invite someone to come over to your place.

Remember if someone can’t make it, it doesn’t mean that they are not into you, it could all be about timing. If it doesn’t work out now, it could in the future.

15 cutest ways to invite people over to your place

1. I’m having people over to stare at their phones later if you want to come by.

2. Let’s get together soon, drink tequila, and do fun things neither of us will remember tomorrow.

3. After reviewing all my other options, let’s hang out tonight.

4. Let’s get together for a night of shit talking.

5. Want to come over and enjoy a gourmet microwave dinner tonight?

6. I finally cleaned up my place, I need a witness. Want to come over?

7. Want to come over and be a guinea pig for my new margarita recipe?

8. I’m going to be conducting a top-secret taste test of my latest experimental dish. Warning: it’s going to be delicious. Are you up for it?

9. I am having a party and will be attempting to break the world record for the most people crammed into my living room. Want to come over?

10. I am planning to have some of my favourite people over for a get together and you are on the top of my guest list.

11. You always bring so much fun wherever you go. Can you come over to our party on the weekend.

12. Can you come to our get together? We need a ray of sunshine at the party.

13. I am having a dine in the dark experience. Do you want to come over for a night of mystery with blindfolds and fun?

14. I just wanted to let you know that you are always welcome to invite me over to your place.

15. Do you want come over? I need some motivation to clean my house!

Why do people get nervous to invite others over?

It can be intimidating to invite people over if you don’t have a lot of hosting experience. Some of the common things people worry about are:

1. Fear of a messy house: People may fear that they have a cluttered or messy house and feel embarrassed to have people over.

2. Worry over being a terrible cook: Not everyone is a master chef and they may be nervous sharing their limited culinary skills. This can be solved with a charcuterie board, French bread and some nice wine.

3. Lack of hosting experience: People who haven’t hosted a lot of dinner parties may be nervous to invite people over for a meal. Like any skill the more you do it the easier it gets. After throwing a few dinner parties, you will learn from your mistakes and be able to host like a pro.

4. Fear of being rejected: It takes courage to invite someone new over to your place, especially if it is a romantic interest. Sometimes to get what you want you have to get out of your comfort zone and do something new or risk asking your crush out.

Maybe you are not the best host or grill master in the world, but most people will be thrilled to be invited over and spend a couple of hours in good company. It’s time to extend an invitation and invite a friend or a loved one over for a fun evening.

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When you are dealing with a person who invites people over to your place and you find it stressful, consider getting support from a professional. Talking to a counselor is a great way to work through a challenging situation, and help you find some strategies to work through the person’s behaviour.

Better Help is a great resource where you can talk to a counselor from the comfort of your own home. 

Taking care of your own needs isn’t selfish, and you will feel better in the long run.

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