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What to say when someone says they’re too busy to see you

How to respond when someone says they are too busy to see you

There are times in life when everyone experiences hectic periods when they are too busy to have much of a social life. Sometimes work, family or school has to be the top priority, but if someone is constantly too busy to see you, they may be making excuses not to spend time with you. Never make someone a priority when they only make you an option.

If you are in a relationship and someone can’t find the time to hang out with you, then they are just not that into you. When you are interested in someone romantically, you always make time to see the person.

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You will always have time for the things you put first.
Let me know when you are available so I can make sure I am busy.
No calls I understand. No texts I understand. When you see me with someone else I hope you can understand.
No matter how busy someone is, if they really care, they will always find time for you.

When a person is too busy to see you

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2 Responses

  1. “We all have the same 24 hours in a day! Prioritize!” (It’s what you choose to do during that time that makes a difference)

    “When you are reduced to an option, you’ll never become a priority.”

  2. Oh I’m sorry I bothered you I thought you said if I ever needed anything to come to you? My bad won’t happen again.

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