We have all had a friend or know somebody who constantly complains and tells you how hard their life is but doesn’t do anything to change the situation. For most of us in the Western world life really isn’t so bad, did your parents cut off your limbs and send you off to the streets of Mumbai to beg? No, I didn’t think so.
Some folks just like to complain without taking any action. Sure, the first time you might offer a little sympathy and give the person some extra attention but after a while it gets to be an old story.
We all have a choice of how we live our life, you can sit at home and complain that your life is hard or you can get up and put one foot in front of the other and do something to change the situation. I don’t think that many people accomplished great things sitting on the couch watching Netflix.
If someone isn’t willing to put in the work to solve their problems, then the problem obviously isn’tworrying them all that much. Here are a few things you can say to give the person a wakeup call next time that they complain how hard their life is.
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