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How to answer what are you thinking about

Check out our funny replies when someone asks WHAT YOU'RE THINKING ABOUT

Have you ever been asked what you’re thinking about and you would rather not share, especially if you are in your man zone and thinking about absolutely nothing?

You may have been thinking about the hot blonde who just walked in the room (which your girlfriend wouldn’t appreciate hearing about) or how the dinner your mom just made is terrible. Really, not all thoughts are meant to be shared with others.

Next time someone wants to know the nitty-gritty details of what you are thinking about and you want to be evasive, use one of our clever comebacks below.

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