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What to say when someone wants to know why you won’t hook up with them

How to respond when someone asks why you won't have sex with them

If you are really attractive, chances are you probably get hit on a lot by members of the opposite sex. Guaranteed, there is going to be someone who wants to hook up with you and will want to know why you are not into them.

They may wonder why you won’t give them a chance, the thing is the attraction has to be a two-way street. Having chemistry with someone is not something that can be faked or changed, it just is. When people have chemistry together they both feel it.

Men also can’t expect to walk up to a girl and tap her on the head and have her knickers fall off! Romance usually takes a little bit of warming up.


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When someone wants to know why you won’t hook up with them, use one of our clever comebacks below.

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Ever notice to people who told you to calm down are the one's who got you mad in the first place.
Do not summon my inner bitch. She doesn't play nice.
Telling an angry woman to calm down works about as well as baptizing a cat.
Don't make me angry and tell me to calm down. That's like stabbing someone and wondering why they're bleeding.
I'm Italian and I cannot calm down.

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when someone won't have sex with you

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