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Great comebacks when someone says that you’re insecure

How to respond if you are called INSECURE

We all have things we are insecure about, maybe it’s your flabby thighs, you’re becoming forgetful or you can’t spell to save your life. None of us are perfect nor ever will we ever be.

When you have someone in your life who keeps pointing out your insecurities it can be offensive, especially if they know it is something you are sensitive about. It’s one thing for your uncle to point out how big your feet are, but does he need to mention it at every family gathering!

Sometimes people make comments pretending to have your best interests at heart when they are actually making a snide remark. Now those are the people who are truly in need of a good comeback.


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These comebacks will let the offender know you are not interested in their unsolicited snarky comments next time they call you insecure.

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If you can't be kind than be quiet.
And you pointing out the obvious is what, helpful?
Thanks so much for the constructive criticism. Now f*ck off!
Before you judge me, make sure you\'re perfect.
Next time I need an unsolicited and uninformed opinion I will know where to go.

What to say when you are called insecure

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