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How to answer when you are called stuck up

Great replies when you are accused of being stuck up

If you are a confident, attractive or a quiet individual, there’s a pretty good chance that you have been mistaken for being stuck up. Some of us are quiet and don’t feel comfortable talking a lot with people that we don’t know. A lot of us don’t speak unless we have something valuable to say and mind our own business, which can be interpreted as being a snob.

You can’t control what other people do or say, their perception of other people is their issue.

If people are being presumptuous and calling you stuck up, use one of our clever comebacks.

Vote for the best comeback for being called stuck up

Jealously is a disease. Get well soon.
Don''t hate me because you ain't me.
Some people should use a glue stick instead of chapstick.
Judging another person does not define who they are...it defines who you are.
Your crazy is showing. You might want to tuck it back in.


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People assumed Bette Davis was stuck up because of her confidence

By Alexander Kahle (1886–1968) for RKO Radio – eBay, Public Domain, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=20403401

I was thought to be ‘stuck up.’ I wasn’t. I was just sure of myself. This is and always has been an unforgivable quality to the unsure.

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4 Responses

    1. I know right, Loretta?!?!! Then You just stand the frozen and don’t know what to say. Then the other people around you are all like,’ Need some ice with that burn?! ohhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!” and you are so embarrassed! :,(

  1. First of all I want to say wonderful blog! I had a quick question which I’d like to ask if you do not mind. I was curious to find out how you center yourself and clear your head prior to writing. I have had trouble clearing my thoughts in getting my thoughts out. I truly do enjoy writing but it just seems like the first 10 to 15 minutes are usually lost just trying to figure out how to begin. Any ideas or tips? Kudos!|

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