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What to say when a friend starts dating your Ex

What to say when your friend HOOKS UP WITH YOUR EX

It can be a little bit of a shock when you find out one of your friends has hooked up with your Ex. Whatever happened to girl code, where getting together with a friend’s ex-boyfriend is off limits?

No doubt about it, you are probably going to feel really pissed off! Especially if you confided any confidential things about your previous relationship.

It probably isn’t worth your time to make a big scene about the situation, you will only look jealous and they will still be together. It is OK to let your friend know that you find it a little strange that out of all of the guys in the world they chose your EX!

Use one of our clever comebacks to let her know hooking up with your Ex is not OK.

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I'm eating a sandwich, do you want those leftovers too?
I don't mind seeing a friend with my ex, my parents always told me to give my toys to the less fortunate.
You’re dating me EX? I thought the five second rule was for food only..
You’re dating my EX? Enjoy my sloppy second seconds.


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  1. I used all of them all in one go. Thank you so much for this. She was so embarrassed and I felt better about it.

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